Tantric Sex - The Left Hand Path

The science of Tantra has two main branches, which are known as Vama Marga and Dakshina Marga. Tantric Sex or Vama Marga is the left-hand path that combines sexual life with yoga practices in order to explode the dormant energy centers. Dakshina Marga is the right-hand path of yoga practices without sexual enactment.

 

Read also Vama Marga of Tantric Sex.

Tantra is also known as the “art of love,” and that can be very true for this ancient practice. The word is Sanskrit, which means 'technique’ or ‘art’ as in the ‘art of loving.’ The meaning of the word is “one who has been touched by the divine,” and that certainly describes what Tantra is all about. When it comes to the mysteries of the mystic arts, nothing beats the results produced by this form of worship. It can also be said that all the arts are based on such principles as love, passion, and sexuality. The following points may be used to define these three characteristics, but in order to truly grasp what Tantra is, you must first understand these three certain principles. In fact, these are the pillars on which all the other aspects of the occult arts are based.

Love, Orgasm, and Worship

The first of these three is love, the second is an orgasm, and the third is Tantra or worship. This is not to say that we cannot discuss any of the other aspects of Tantra, such as sexual intercourse. It just isn't necessary for us to delve too deeply into those subjects at this time. In ancient times, only the wealthy could go to school and be taught these things. This was because, in those days, science and religion were still at a somewhat distant separation. Those who did attend school understood these things, but the people who lived a life of worship at the temple did not.

 

Once Tantra became widespread, these secrets were slowly revealed, and Tantra Masters discovered the means by which they could give praise and thanks to the gods without being forced to do so. These people had come into contact with the wondrous aspects of their lives through the occult arts. And so, when it came to Tantra, everything became an extension of the spiritual aspect. It is only through the discovery of Tantra that you can achieve sexual satisfaction. A satisfaction that goes beyond the mere act of sexual intercourse!

 

You might think that the purpose of the Tantric Master is only to teach you the techniques to give you an orgasm, but that is a misconception. As it is with all aspects of the mystic arts, the goal of the Tantra Master is to help you find your inner bliss. Therefore, if you go to a Tantric Master, you will learn that it is not necessary to give your whole self to the deity to receive an orgasm. This is because the Tantra Master, through various tantric exercises, will teach you that you can have orgasms even while you are not having sex with your partner. When you do so, you will feel a sense of gratification that cannot be explained, and it will feel great.

 

In fact, when you become a student of Tantra, you will gain access to your own inner life. This can be quite liberating because you will be able to find out things about yourself that you may not have considered possible. The Tantra Master has no authority over you, and he does not care what you want. All he cares about is to help you discover who you really are, and you will feel that this is possible because of the knowledge that he imparts to you. He is striving to liberate your true self!

 
How Tantric Sex Can Make Your Relationship Better

Tantric sex is not the same as what we normally think of when it comes to lovemaking. Many people mistakenly believe that the only way to have tantric sex is with a partner who has the exact same belief system. This is not true, because Tantra is all about technique and has nothing to do with religion. In tantric sex, if you choose to worship a goddess, then it is the same as worshiping a dominatrix! Don’t get caught up in the religious or even spiritual definitions of Tantra! Remember, anything that is stifling is NOT Tantra!

 

In today's world, there are so many definitions and variations of how a couple should initiate lovemaking. Some people would think that certain positions or rituals are sacred or taboo while others might consider them natural and necessary. The key is that they all aim to create intimacy between two people. Of course, in reality, the role of each individual is more vital than how to use or implement some tantric sex ritual or ceremony. Many couples experience Tantra as a safe, comfortable, and desirable means of knowing that they are in fact being intimate with each other.

 

It is simply the act of discovering, understanding and achieving self-awareness by loving oneself

and opening up one's heart and mind to the lover.

Many couples get lost in the act of pleasing themselves, and they really do not realize the true purpose of using their own bodies. They tend to become completely self-absorbed and do not even care about how they look or how a part of them is appreciated by the person they love. But, this does not mean that one should cease doing things that are truly attractive and pleasurable. The most important thing is to have fun with what you are doing and become more than a number. Do not be selfish. There is nothing wrong with realizing that you love yourself and the fact that you are as sexy as you want to be. It is so easy to become so focused on what is going on in your body that you forget the fun you have with each other. And there is absolutely no harm in discussing in minute details each and every aspect of role-playing or lovemaking. It’s better to discuss this with your lover than to do so with a couples’ counselor or psychiatrist.

 

Tantric Healing

Tantric sex is not just about making love; it is also about healing your partner. One of the main purposes of sex is to soothe and provide pleasure and intimacy. It is a very natural thing for us to desire fulfillment and love; so, we can appreciate the fact that it is also very healthy to feel pleasure. People who were born with a mind-set of sexual self-indulgence will always find it difficult to overcome that inclination. That is why tantric sex is so valuable. It is all about the discovery of who you are and how you want to express that through your partner. Having sex to satisfy your own physical desires is what the old saying “once bitten, twice shy” comes from.

 

With this type of self-awareness, tantric lovemaking will become much more fulfilling and enjoyable. Therefore, it is always a good idea to make sure that you give yourself plenty of time to relax and unwind to refresh your mind and body so that you can enjoy tantric sex more and improve your overall health and well-being. The most important thing that a couple should focus on when having tantric sex is to learn how to connect with each other.

 

It is a matter of discovering the truth of your deepest connection to the other person.

In doing so, you discover your own self!

For many people, the notion of exploring themselves sexually is really intimidating. Tantra is a very foreign concept to them because they have tried other techniques that were not satisfying or they have felt that their partners had somehow ignored them. It is also often a risk to try something that you have never tried before. Because of this, it is very important to bring something new into your relationship and into your sexual experiences so that you will not get frustrated and disappointed if something does not go the way you expected. Tantric sex also involves learning to talk in bed; which is also quite a difficult art, but it is also one that will surely improve your relationship.

 

You need to learn how to communicate, share something that is meaningful to your partner. It is also important to make sure that both of you are comfortable and that there are enough space and privacy so that you can fully explore the act of lovemaking in the context of a tantric partnership.

 
Tantra and the Love Orgasm

In this article, I will discuss the power of sexuality to influence both the body and mind. Specifically, I will address the connection between your sexual desires and your state of mind. Sexual desire is a clear indication that you are in tune with your sexual energies and can use them to create the life you desire. The desire is a powerful tool in bringing the mind-body connection into alignment. As you come into alignment with the mind, you begin to use your energy to bring about the lifestyle you desire. So it makes sense that sexual desire brings forth the mind.

 

Mind-body-spirit (MBS) practitioners stress the duality of mind, body, and spirit. They believe that each component has a direct and active effect on the other two components. They believe in the harmony of the three elements. The understanding of how the three components interact is what is called "mind-body-spirit." This is the connection between the physical body, the mental mind, and the spiritual mind. It is the energy that makes up your body, mind, and spirit.

 

Sexuality connects to the physical and mental body in the most innate way possible.

 

Anything else is intellectual and therefore a bit superficial. Additionally, it is the connection between the sexual and emotional aspects of the mind and spirit. The sexual energy flows through the physical body. It moves through the body as the body moves through its functions. What we are talking about here is not the physical aspect of sexuality, but the emotional aspect of sexuality that produces the feelings and desires that we have.

 

When one realizes the emotional aspects of sex, then sex gets elevated into the realm of aesthetics and art!

 

If you are conscious of the fact that you have emotions and desires that you desire, then you have the ability to consciously tap into the energy that is the life force within yourself. This energy is called Tantric Love. It is the spiritual love that all animals have for themselves, and it resides in all living beings.

 

We often look at sex and love as separate concepts, but this is only because we have been programmed by the reptilian portion of our brain that allows us to separate the mental aspects of ourselves from the physical aspects. The human brain is a vestige of the primate brain that was introduced to us as part of our evolution process. In a word, our brain is designed to think of itself as separate from the rest of the physical body. The truth is that we are connected. We are all one! When you are in tune with the relationship between the body, mind, and spirit, you begin to see that there is no separation, not even in the physical domain.

 

Different types of sexuality can be used as a vehicle for unleashing sexual energies that were repressed as children. The sexual energies were buried in the recesses of the mind and spirit. The physical or carnal aspect of sexuality can be channeled in many ways to bring the sexual energy into alignment with the emotional aspect of the mind and spirit. Releasing this suppressed energy, resulting in an inner feeling of bliss, is what Tantra practitioners refer to as the "love orgasm." This is a sign that you are on the path to more power, harmony, and ultimate existential freedom.

 

Relationship with the body, mind, and spirit, especially the love orgasm, is the basic foundation of Tantra practice. Once you are clear about the importance of each component, the rest is easy. All you need to do is let go and surrender to your greater creative energies.

 

Ultimate Female Orgasm

The following is taken from a scientific article. It shows how ignorant we are about our own bodily functions: 

 

https://www.nature.com/articles/3900823

 

"In several studies... orgasm induces prolactin secretion in healthy males and females. This suggests that prolactin may form a feedback regulator of the refractory period following orgasm. To examine this position we investigated the prolactin response of a healthy multi-orgasmic male subject. Blood was drawn continuously during masturbation-induced orgasm. The prolactin response of the case-subject was compared with that of nine healthy adult men with a normal refractory period. The case-subject showed no prolactin response to three orgasms. Data from this multi-orgasmic subject support the hypothesized role of plasma prolactin in contributing to sexual-satiation mechanisms."

The natural female orgasm and the male orgasm are completely different from one another. There are many anatomical differences (obviously) and endocrine factors that control male and female orgasms. The best way to give your woman a pleasurable experience in her sexual intercourse is by focusing on your penis as you thrust your penis into her vagina. Use the pressure that you apply by applying pressure to the tip of your penis. As she responds to your touch, use your other hand to gently run it through her hair as this will stimulate the clitoris.

 

If you have been having sex for quite a while and have not had a female orgasm, then you should try one of the following methods. You can engage in a female masturbation session to achieve the elusive female orgasm. The key is to create a healthy environment for the nerves of her clitoris by stimulating it lightly or by rubbing it gently with your finger tips.

This will cause her to have an intense orgasm. Women love this sort of stimulation and it will make them sexually aroused and have a much better experience in her sexual intercourse. There are various ways to do this. For example, engaging in sexual intercourse without the use of any lubricant will cause some resistance as your lady will experience some discomfort in the beginning of the intercourse. You can take a shower and put some lubricant on her body to reduce some of the friction that you feel during intercourse.

 

Foreplay

On the other hand, you can engage in foreplay, which is really the most crucial part of intercourse. A lot of women tend to have the wrong mindset during the beginning of the intercourse and do not enjoy the sexual intercourse at all. The correct way to make a woman orgasm is to tell her to be more intense with her touch and to stimulate her clitoris with your finger tips.

 

Avoid sex acts such as the missionary position, which will reduce the level of sexual stimulation on your part. The lack of lubrication between the vagina and the penis will bring about some irritation to your body as it tends to bring about mucus blockage. Make sure that you use lube before you engage in the intercourse so that your partner can experience some extra pleasure. If you want to add to the levels of sexual stimulation, then you can use a vibrator which can add to the excitement. This can enhance the sexual intercourse and make your partner enjoy the pleasures even more.

 

If you feel that she is enjoying the sensations, then you can gently start licking her clitoris using circular motions on the vaginal canal. This will stimulate the nerve endings as this is an important part of your lady's body and if you can get some pleasure from it, then so can she. 

 

Tantra and Orgasms

In order to understand how to give pleasure to a woman, you need to look at the concept of Tantra and how it works. You will need to learn tantric techniques and be able to perform the various tantric sex positions that will increase the sex drive and allow for multiple orgasms. These positions are very important because they teach the woman how to use specialized poses as a form of pleasure. You will discover that these positions and other positions will also help to increase her levels of arousal, therefore helping her achieve stronger orgasms in a short period of time. Tantric exercises will help to bring your woman to the point where she will be able to experience orgasms on demand. The more that you practice these exercises, the better you will become at giving your lover powerful orgasms.

 

Sexual union is not only of the body but also of the mind. It is crucial that you don't use only physical sexual activity for liberation. Creating a pleasurable sexual tension with complete mindfulness will ensure sexual ecstasy.

The Energy Principle

The contention of Vama Marga is that the awakening of Kundalini is possible through the interaction between man and woman. Man and woman represent positive and negative energy. On a mental level they represent time and space. When they come together at the nucleus or central point, an explosion occurs and matter becomes manifest. This is the basic theme of tantric initiation. In every speck of life, it is the union between the positive and negative poles that is responsible for creation. At the same time, union between positive and negative poles is also responsible for enlightenment, and the experience which takes place at the time of union is a glimpse of the higher experience.

 - Swami Satyananda Saraswati